The Rules of Marriage (1982)

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A seemingly perfect marriage disintegrates, as both husband and wife become involved in a series of affairs.

Film Overview
"The Rules of Marriage" is an American made-for-television drama film that aired in two parts on CBS in May 1982. Directed by Milton Katselas and written by Lionel Chetwynd, the film deals with the intricacies and deteriorating aspects of a marriage. It stars Elizabeth Montgomery and Elliott Gould, with the narrative concentrating on their relationship as a couple.

Plot Summary
The movie traces the journey of Michael Hagen (Elliott Gould) and Joan Hagen (Elizabeth Montgomery), who have been wed for fifteen years and are apparently the perfect couple. Michael is a successful legal representative, while Joan is an interior decorator. However, unbeknownst to their loved ones, they are on the brink of separation.

Michael, in spite of having a loving household, falls for and begins an affair with a much younger female named Robin (Shawn Weatherly). Guilt-ridden, he confesses the affair to Joan, who is ravaged however decides to restore their marriage. She recommends they opt for therapy and work through their issues.

Dispute and Resolution
The story unfolds as treatment sessions reveal covert gaps, insecurities, and aggravations in their marriage. Michael blames Joan for being too best, therefore activating his infidelity. Joan, on the other hand, expresses regret over shelving her profession for domesticity. Their teen children are also impacted by the strain on their parents' relationship. During this extreme period, Joan rekindles a friendship with a male called George, a kind soul who provides psychological assistance she needs presently.

Even more along in the story, another shock takes place as Joan unabashedly confesses an affair with George. Somewhat stunning Michael and visibly straining their marital relationship, Joan's confession comes up with another round of heated exchanges. It eventually results in a shared decision to divorce peacefully.

Concluding Act
The climax of the film features a surreal anniversary dinner went to by friends and family. The couple makes a public announcement about their divorce, leaving everyone in shock but conveying a sense that both are okay with the choice. The scene ends on a poignant note with Michael toasting Joan, signaling their desire to part on amicable terms.

Performances & Reception
Elizabeth Montgomery's performance was widely noted, as she provided a powerful and engaging portrayal of a lady having problem with her partner's extramarital relations and her own sense of self. Elliott Gould likewise delivered an impactful efficiency, portraying the guilt and confusion of a man torn in between his household and his lover.

"The Rules of Marriage" received some criticism for its representation of the breakdown of a marriage, with some audiences finding it too simple. Nevertheless, it offers a relatable expedition of the complexities of marital life and the pressure it places on individuals.

Last Note
"The Rules of Marriage" sticks out as a movie exploring the conjugality of marriage in a fully grown, truthful way and provides the changing characteristics of marriage, infidelity, and individual needs in an evolving society. While it may appear dated due to its 1980s production date, the topic stays appropriate, making it a compelling watch.

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