"Even as we enumerate their shortcomings, the rigor of raising children ourselves makes clear to us our mothers' incredible strength. We fear both. If they are not strong, who will protect us? If they are not imperfect, how can we equal them?"
- Anna Quindlen
About this Quote
This quote speaks to the complexity of the relationship in between moms and their kids. On one hand, we acknowledge our moms' unbelievable strength and the rigor of raising children. On the other hand, we fear our mothers' strength due to the fact that it can be daunting and overwhelming. We likewise fear their imperfections because it can make us feel insufficient in comparison. This quote highlights the uncertainty of the mother-child relationship, and how it can be both a source of convenience and insecurity. Eventually, it is a suggestion of the immense power of motherhood and the value of acknowledging and valuing our mothers' strength and imperfections.
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