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Let your enemies be disarmed by the gentleness of your manner, but at the same time let them feel, the steadiness of you
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"Let your enemies be disarmed by the gentleness of your manner, but at the same time let them feel, the steadiness of your resentment"

- Lord Chesterfield

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In this quote, Lord Chesterfield provides guidance on how to deal with opponents and possible disputes. He advises individuals to deactivate their opponents by showing a mild and kind manner, which suggests approaching disputes with diplomacy rather than aggression. By doing so, opponents might be caught off guard or disarmed, possibly cultivating a more cooperative atmosphere. Nevertheless, Lord Chesterfield likewise stresses the value of keeping a sense of firmness and resolve. He recommends that while one should show gentleness, enemies ought to likewise be aware of one's steady determination and determination. This mix of gentleness and steadfastness can help browse disputes successfully while ensuring individual limits and goals are maintained.

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United Kingdom Flag This quote is written / told by Lord Chesterfield between September 22, 1694 and March 24, 1773. He was a famous Statesman from United Kingdom. The author also have 60 other quotes.

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