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"I'm against having emotions, not against using them"
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Before he became the cool-headed closer at Pearson Hardman, Harvey Specter learned what it costs to let feeling lead: anger that leaks into a deposition, loyalty that turns into leverage for someone else, pride that hardens into a blind spot. The armor didn’t appear overnight; it was forged in rooms where one mistake could decide a career. That’s the hard-earned lesson behind, “I’m against having emotions, not against using them.”
Read plainly, the line sounds like bravado, another corporate-era sermon on being “tough.” But Specter’s distinction is more precise: he’s rejecting emotional possession, not emotional perception. “Having” emotions, in his world, means being commandeered by them, reacting to insult, panic, or longing before the facts are even on the table. That’s how smart people hand their power away.
“Using” emotions, though, is an argument for discipline, not numbness. It’s the idea that feeling can be data and fuel, if you keep your hands on the wheel. In negotiation, calm is a tactic; confidence is theater; empathy is intelligence. The point isn’t to flatten yourself into a robot, but to decide when to deploy warmth, when to project certainty, and when to let silence do the persuading. That’s leadership in its most practical form, and a kind of resilience that doesn’t depend on pretending you’re unbreakable.
Harvey Specter, the razor-sharp attorney from Suits portrayed by Gabriel Macht, is written as someone who wins by reading people as closely as he reads contracts, shaped by ambition, complicated loyalties, and relationships that test his self-control.
With late September’s routines tightening back into place, the quote lands as a usable rule: notice what you feel, name it, then choose how it serves the outcome, before it chooses for you.
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