"The difficulty of IVF or of any fertility issues is the hope and the shattered hope, the dream that it might happen this time and then it doesn't happen"
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The phrasing does quiet but deliberate work. "The dream that it might happen this time" captures the peculiar optimism IVF requires: not abstract hope, but hope tethered to a calendar, a protocol, a phone call. "This time" is both promise and trap, the phrase that keeps people returning to clinics and also the phrase that makes failure feel personal, as if fate is responding to you specifically. Then she lands on the blunt repetition - "and then it doesn't happen" - refusing euphemism the way fertility culture often demands, where pain is softened into "not successful" or "not viable."
As a pop figure, Shields's intent is also cultural: to pull infertility out of the private-shame category and into the conversational mainstream without turning it into inspiration porn. She names the psychic cost - the whiplash between belief and loss - so the audience can't reduce IVF to a lifestyle choice or a miracle story.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shields, Brooke. (2026, January 16). The difficulty of IVF or of any fertility issues is the hope and the shattered hope, the dream that it might happen this time and then it doesn't happen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-difficulty-of-ivf-or-of-any-fertility-issues-134977/
Chicago Style
Shields, Brooke. "The difficulty of IVF or of any fertility issues is the hope and the shattered hope, the dream that it might happen this time and then it doesn't happen." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-difficulty-of-ivf-or-of-any-fertility-issues-134977/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The difficulty of IVF or of any fertility issues is the hope and the shattered hope, the dream that it might happen this time and then it doesn't happen." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-difficulty-of-ivf-or-of-any-fertility-issues-134977/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.






