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Life & Wisdom Quote by Mary Astell

"Women are from their very infancy debarred those Advantages with the want of which they are afterwards reproached"

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Astell’s line is less a complaint than a trap laid for polite society. She points to a familiar ritual: deny women education, civic authority, and economic autonomy, then scold them for being “frivolous,” “ignorant,” or “unfit” for serious work. The sentence is built like an indictment. “From their very infancy” widens the crime scene to childhood, where habit hardens into destiny. “Debarred” is the key verb: not merely lacking, but actively barred, kept out by design. The final clause twists the knife: the very deficits engineered by the culture are later repackaged as proof of women’s natural inferiority.

The subtext is strategic and modern: Astell doesn’t beg to be included; she exposes the rigged rules. She turns what looks like a moral judgment (women’s supposed shortcomings) into an accountability question. Who benefits from keeping women untrained and then blaming them for the predictable results? That pivot drains the argument of its faux commonsense and reveals it as policy.

Context matters. Writing in late Stuart England, Astell is pushing against an order in which women’s literacy and independence were tolerated only to the extent they reinforced obedience, marriage, and piety. Her critique anticipates today’s language about “pipeline problems” and “meritocracy”: you can’t credibly measure merit after you’ve controlled access to preparation. The quote works because it refuses the comforting fiction that inequality is accidental; it names it as a feedback loop, maintained through both institutions and contempt.

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Verified source: A Serious Proposal to the Ladies (Mary Astell, 1694)
Text match: 96.39%   Provider: Cross-Reference
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Women are from their very infancy debarred those Advantages with the want of which they are afterwards reproached, and nursed up in those Vices which will hereafter be upbraided to them. (Part I (page number varies by edition; commonly cited as p. 15 in the 1697 two-part ed.)). This sentence appears in Mary Astell’s A Serious Proposal to the Ladies, Part I (the first part was originally published in 1694; Part II appeared later). The wording you provided is an exact excerpt of the first clause of Astell’s sentence; many secondary quotations omit the continuation beginning “and nursed up…”. A commonly-cited location is Part I, p. 15 in the later collected/two-part editions (exact page depends on which printing/edition is used).
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The Westminster Review (1898) compilation96.7%
... Women are from their very infancy debarred those advantages with the want of which they are afterwards reproached...
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Astell, Mary. (2026, February 18). Women are from their very infancy debarred those Advantages with the want of which they are afterwards reproached. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-are-from-their-very-infancy-debarred-those-88706/

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Astell, Mary. "Women are from their very infancy debarred those Advantages with the want of which they are afterwards reproached." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-are-from-their-very-infancy-debarred-those-88706/.

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"Women are from their very infancy debarred those Advantages with the want of which they are afterwards reproached." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-are-from-their-very-infancy-debarred-those-88706/. Accessed 8 Mar. 2026.

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Mary Astell

Mary Astell (December 12, 1666 - May 11, 1731) was a Writer from England.

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