"90% of the divorces are initiated by women. That is really odd. Why? What's going on? What's the great discontent at the heart of it?"
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The subtext is gendered accountability. If women “initiate,” they’re framed as the destabilizers of the family contract, the ones refusing to endure what previous generations normalized. That framing quietly erases why initiation happens: not merely romantic restlessness, but power shifts. In many societies, women’s increased access to income, legal protection, and social permission makes leaving survivable. Divorce initiation can signal not caprice but leverage - the difference between “can’t” and “won’t anymore.” It can also reflect who does the relational bookkeeping: the person most attuned to chronic inequality often becomes the one who files.
Context matters because celebrity commentary often treats personal-life data as cultural weather. Geldof, a public figure with a tabloid shadow and a philanthropic megaphone, speaks in the register of concerned common sense. The effect is to launder a contested claim as self-evident, inviting audiences to puzzle over women’s supposed dissatisfaction instead of the conditions that make dissatisfaction rational. The questions create drama; the drama conveniently dodges specifics.
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Geldof, Bob. (2026, January 15). 90% of the divorces are initiated by women. That is really odd. Why? What's going on? What's the great discontent at the heart of it? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/90-of-the-divorces-are-initiated-by-women-that-is-139842/
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Geldof, Bob. "90% of the divorces are initiated by women. That is really odd. Why? What's going on? What's the great discontent at the heart of it?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/90-of-the-divorces-are-initiated-by-women-that-is-139842/.
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"90% of the divorces are initiated by women. That is really odd. Why? What's going on? What's the great discontent at the heart of it?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/90-of-the-divorces-are-initiated-by-women-that-is-139842/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.





