"A bad manner spoils everything, even reason and justice; a good one supplies everything, gilds a No, sweetens a truth, and adds a touch of beauty to old age itself"
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The subtext is pragmatic, almost merciless. “Good” manners are not moral purity; they’re a technology of delivery. To “gild a No” is to deny without humiliating. To “sweeten a truth” is to tell someone what they need to hear without triggering the defenses that make truth useless. He’s describing persuasion as an aesthetic act: the surface isn’t separate from the substance because people experience substance through surface.
There’s also a quiet critique of virtue performed as aggression. Gracian implies that righteousness, when wielded clumsily, becomes its own kind of injustice. The closing flourish - “adds a touch of beauty to old age itself” - widens the claim from politics to the whole social body: manners are how we dignify limits, soften inevitabilities, and keep life from turning into a constant contest of sharp edges. In an era obsessed with honor, he’s arguing that the highest status move is not dominance, but grace.
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Gracian, Baltasar. (2026, January 17). A bad manner spoils everything, even reason and justice; a good one supplies everything, gilds a No, sweetens a truth, and adds a touch of beauty to old age itself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-bad-manner-spoils-everything-even-reason-and-40304/
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Gracian, Baltasar. "A bad manner spoils everything, even reason and justice; a good one supplies everything, gilds a No, sweetens a truth, and adds a touch of beauty to old age itself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-bad-manner-spoils-everything-even-reason-and-40304/.
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"A bad manner spoils everything, even reason and justice; a good one supplies everything, gilds a No, sweetens a truth, and adds a touch of beauty to old age itself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-bad-manner-spoils-everything-even-reason-and-40304/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.











