"A ball had passed between my body and the right arm which supported him, cutting through the sleeve and passing through his chest from shoulder to shoulder. There was no more to be done for him and I left him to his rest. I have never mended that hole in my sleeve"
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Her restraint is the subtext's engine. "There was no more to be done for him" is not melodrama; it's triage as moral weather. Barton, a pioneering nurse and later founder of the American Red Cross, is writing out of the Civil War's brutal arithmetic: limited hands, limited time, too many wounds. The line reads like a professional report, but the next sentence breaks protocol: "I left him to his rest". The euphemism is tender, almost liturgical, suggesting the caregiver's last gift is dignity, not cure.
"I have never mended that hole in my sleeve" turns the anecdote into a portable memorial. She keeps the damage as evidence and penance, refusing the satisfaction of repair. It's a quiet rebuke to narratives that romanticize sacrifice: the war ends, uniforms get patched, history gets smoothed. Barton's sleeve stays torn, insisting the cost remains visible, and that public service is often the art of carrying what cannot be fixed.
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| Topic | War |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barton, Clara. (2026, January 17). A ball had passed between my body and the right arm which supported him, cutting through the sleeve and passing through his chest from shoulder to shoulder. There was no more to be done for him and I left him to his rest. I have never mended that hole in my sleeve. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-ball-had-passed-between-my-body-and-the-right-81155/
Chicago Style
Barton, Clara. "A ball had passed between my body and the right arm which supported him, cutting through the sleeve and passing through his chest from shoulder to shoulder. There was no more to be done for him and I left him to his rest. I have never mended that hole in my sleeve." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-ball-had-passed-between-my-body-and-the-right-81155/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A ball had passed between my body and the right arm which supported him, cutting through the sleeve and passing through his chest from shoulder to shoulder. There was no more to be done for him and I left him to his rest. I have never mended that hole in my sleeve." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-ball-had-passed-between-my-body-and-the-right-81155/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.




