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Love Quote by Oscar Hammerstein II

"A bell's not a bell 'til you ring it, A song's not a song 'til you sing it, Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay, Love isn't love 'til you give it away!"

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Hammerstein builds a moral out of stagecraft: nothing exists as itself until it’s performed. The quote moves like a lyric because it is one, built on a simple engine of repetition and escalation. “A bell’s not a bell” and “a song’s not a song” sound almost childlike, but that innocence is the disguise. He’s smuggling in a philosophy of action: potential is cheap; meaning arrives only through use.

The subtext is pointedly anti-hoarding. Bells and songs are made to travel outward, to be heard, to change the air in a room. By pairing them with love, Hammerstein reframes love as a verb rather than a possession. “Love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay” rejects the cozy modern fantasy of private virtue - feeling deeply, quietly, as if emotion were an end in itself. He suggests the opposite: love that remains sealed inside you isn’t morally neutral; it’s unfinished, maybe even wasted.

Context matters here because Hammerstein wrote for a mid-century American audience steeped in community ideals and postwar optimism, but also the creeping suspicion that comfort could become complacency. Musical theater, at its best, externalizes interior life: characters sing when speech can’t carry the load. This lyric turns that theatrical logic into a civic one. Ring the bell. Sing the song. Give the love away. Not because it’s saintly, but because without the outward act, the inner feeling doesn’t fully become real.

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Unverified source: The Sound of Music (Sixteen Going on Seventeen , Reprise) (Oscar Hammerstein II, 1959)
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Song: "Sixteen Going on Seventeen (Reprise)" (special verse/intro for Maria). Primary-source text is a lyric written by Oscar Hammerstein II for Rodgers & Hammerstein’s stage musical The Sound of Music. The oft-circulated quote matches (with minor punctuation/wording variants like “’til” vs “till...
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Oscar Hammerstein II

Oscar Hammerstein II (July 12, 1895 - August 23, 1960) was a Musician from USA.

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