"A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever"
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The subtext hinges on power. A broken bone is visible, diagnosable, treatable; it recruits sympathy and a clear protocol for repair. A wound opened by language is private, deniable, and endlessly re-litigated in the mind. West is pointing at the asymmetry between harm and proof: the speaker can move on, the listener has to live with the replay. “Fester” is the key verb, making psychological pain bodily and unsanitary, something that spreads when neglected. It also suggests that time alone doesn’t heal; time can worsen. What festers is not only the insult but the silence around it, the lack of apology, the social pressure to “be over it.”
Context matters: West wrote in a century marked by war rhetoric, political scapegoating, and domestic codes that prized niceness while tolerating emotional violence. Her work often circles Quaker-inflected moral seriousness, where language is an ethical act, not decoration. The line argues for accountability in speech without sanctimony: if you can fracture someone with a sentence, you don’t get to plead invisibility as an alibi.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Words Matter (Stan H. Wisler, 2019) modern compilationISBN: 9781475846126 · ID: Bm6pDwAAQBAJ
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... Jessamyn West is quoted as saying, “A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.”1 THE POWER OF WORDS Think about a time when someone said something to you that had an impact on your life or at least a certain ... |
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West, Jessamyn. (2026, February 9). A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-broken-bone-can-heal-but-the-wound-a-word-opens-31900/
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West, Jessamyn. "A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-broken-bone-can-heal-but-the-wound-a-word-opens-31900/.
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"A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-broken-bone-can-heal-but-the-wound-a-word-opens-31900/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






