"A case of can't do with, can't do without, that's why I married him again"
About this Quote
The intent is quietly defiant. In a culture that treats divorce as either scandal or empowerment branding, Warwick lands in a messier middle: sometimes the person who drives you crazy is also the person who steadies your world. "That's why" does a lot of work here. It’s causal, brisk, almost managerial, as if she’s closing a file. The comedy is dry but protective, a way of controlling the narrative before anyone else can moralize it.
Context matters: Warwick comes from an era when public women were expected to keep romance both glamorous and discreet, especially Black women who were rarely afforded the slack of being complicated in public. By choosing understatement over confession, she keeps her dignity and her agency. The subtext isn’t romantic surrender; it’s consent to contradiction. Remarrying "again" isn’t a punchline about weakness. It’s an admission that love can be irrational, and that choosing it anyway can be its own kind of strength.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Warwick, Dionne. (2026, January 15). A case of can't do with, can't do without, that's why I married him again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-case-of-cant-do-with-cant-do-without-thats-why-161828/
Chicago Style
Warwick, Dionne. "A case of can't do with, can't do without, that's why I married him again." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-case-of-cant-do-with-cant-do-without-thats-why-161828/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A case of can't do with, can't do without, that's why I married him again." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-case-of-cant-do-with-cant-do-without-thats-why-161828/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.





