"A cat can be trusted to purr when she is pleased, which is more than can be said for human beings"
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That’s the sly engine of the quote: it turns a domestic observation into a moral comparison without ever sounding moralistic. Inge, a philosopher and public intellectual writing in an era of stiff social codes and layered politeness, is puncturing the Edwardian faith in “good form.” Civility, he implies, can be a kind of camouflage; manners are often less about honesty than about control.
The gendered “she” matters too. The cat isn’t an abstract creature but a particular presence: independent, unbribable, not easily pressed into human hierarchies. Inge’s wit uses that independence as a rebuke to the way people perform emotion as social currency.
Underneath the joke sits a sharper modern insight: we live among incentives that reward strategic ambiguity. The cat purrs when pleased because she can afford to. Humans often can’t - or won’t - and Inge is asking whether that’s sophistication or simply a failure of character dressed up as nuance.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Inge, Dean. (2026, January 17). A cat can be trusted to purr when she is pleased, which is more than can be said for human beings. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-cat-can-be-trusted-to-purr-when-she-is-pleased-57225/
Chicago Style
Inge, Dean. "A cat can be trusted to purr when she is pleased, which is more than can be said for human beings." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-cat-can-be-trusted-to-purr-when-she-is-pleased-57225/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A cat can be trusted to purr when she is pleased, which is more than can be said for human beings." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-cat-can-be-trusted-to-purr-when-she-is-pleased-57225/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.













