"A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen"
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“Present” is doing heavy work here. It implies staying in the room with discomfort without trying to manage it, fix it, or make it inspirational. Johnson’s novelist sensibility shows in the attention to scene rather than sermon: the chaplain as witness, not protagonist. The subtext is a critique of the modern impulse to turn every crisis into a solvable problem and every conversation into a performance. Listening becomes radical because it refuses the usual transaction: I’ll give you advice, you’ll give me relief.
The context for chaplaincy - hospitals, prisons, war zones, hospice - matters. These are places where language often fails, where people are reduced to charts, case files, or moral narratives. “Just listen” pushes back against that reduction. It treats a person’s fear, anger, regret, or silence as worthy of attention without requiring it to be coherent, uplifting, or even redeemable.
Johnson is also sneaking in a boundary: the chaplain’s power doesn’t come from control. It comes from companionship. In a culture addicted to fixes, presence is a form of restraint - and a form of respect.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Verified source: Training hospital chaplains (Diane Johnson, 2006)
Evidence: A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen. (Page B4). Primary publication located: an Anchorage Daily News article by Megan Baeza dated February 19, 2006 (Final edition, Section: Alaska, Page: B4). The quote appears in the body text as a direct quotation attributed to CPE intern Diane Johnson (an ordained Jodo Shinshu/Shin Buddhist priest) and is also repeated in the photo caption. I did not find credible evidence (in this search) of an earlier book, speech, or interview source; many quote-aggregation sites appear to have copied the line without a source. Other candidates (1) Carry On Padre (Pierre van Blommestein, 2014) compilation95.0% ... A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen . " " *** Diane Johnson Lunch 12:30-14:00 14:00-17:30 ... |
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Johnson, Diane. (2026, February 9). A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-chaplains-biggest-gift-is-to-be-present-and-167335/
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Johnson, Diane. "A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-chaplains-biggest-gift-is-to-be-present-and-167335/.
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"A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-chaplains-biggest-gift-is-to-be-present-and-167335/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







