"A chaplain's biggest gift is to be present and just listen"
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In an era that mistakes commentary for care, Diane Johnson’s line quietly restores the hierarchy: the chaplain’s “biggest gift” isn’t wisdom, doctrine, or a perfectly timed quote from scripture. It’s presence. The phrasing is deliberately modest - “a chaplain,” “biggest gift,” “just listen” - as if to deflate the prestige people project onto spiritual roles and redirect it toward something less glamorous and more difficult.
“Present” is doing heavy work here. It implies staying in the room with discomfort without trying to manage it, fix it, or make it inspirational. Johnson’s novelist sensibility shows in the attention to scene rather than sermon: the chaplain as witness, not protagonist. The subtext is a critique of the modern impulse to turn every crisis into a solvable problem and every conversation into a performance. Listening becomes radical because it refuses the usual transaction: I’ll give you advice, you’ll give me relief.
The context for chaplaincy - hospitals, prisons, war zones, hospice - matters. These are places where language often fails, where people are reduced to charts, case files, or moral narratives. “Just listen” pushes back against that reduction. It treats a person’s fear, anger, regret, or silence as worthy of attention without requiring it to be coherent, uplifting, or even redeemable.
Johnson is also sneaking in a boundary: the chaplain’s power doesn’t come from control. It comes from companionship. In a culture addicted to fixes, presence is a form of restraint - and a form of respect.
“Present” is doing heavy work here. It implies staying in the room with discomfort without trying to manage it, fix it, or make it inspirational. Johnson’s novelist sensibility shows in the attention to scene rather than sermon: the chaplain as witness, not protagonist. The subtext is a critique of the modern impulse to turn every crisis into a solvable problem and every conversation into a performance. Listening becomes radical because it refuses the usual transaction: I’ll give you advice, you’ll give me relief.
The context for chaplaincy - hospitals, prisons, war zones, hospice - matters. These are places where language often fails, where people are reduced to charts, case files, or moral narratives. “Just listen” pushes back against that reduction. It treats a person’s fear, anger, regret, or silence as worthy of attention without requiring it to be coherent, uplifting, or even redeemable.
Johnson is also sneaking in a boundary: the chaplain’s power doesn’t come from control. It comes from companionship. In a culture addicted to fixes, presence is a form of restraint - and a form of respect.
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