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Parenting & Family Quote by Aldous Huxley

"A child-like man is not a man whose development has been arrested; on the contrary, he is a man who has given himself a chance of continuing to develop long after most adults have muffled themselves in the cocoon of middle-aged habit and convention"

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Huxley turns the common insult of “childish” into a rebuke of adulthood’s smug stagnation. The line works because it refuses the easy psychology - the “arrested development” diagnosis - and replaces it with a moral and cultural distinction: remaining child-like is framed not as a deficiency, but as an ongoing choice to stay permeable to experience. That reversal lands with the dry, scalpel-like confidence of a writer who spent his career dissecting the modern age’s talent for self-sedation.

The subtext is sharper than it first appears. “Muffled themselves” suggests adults actively dull their own senses, as if maturity is less an achievement than a kind of self-administered anesthesia. The “cocoon” metaphor pretends to promise metamorphosis, but Huxley twists it: this cocoon doesn’t produce a butterfly, it produces a well-adjusted sleepwalker. Habit and convention aren’t neutral forces here; they’re social technologies that reward predictability and punish the experimental mind.

Context matters. Writing in a century of mass society, bureaucratic rationality, and accelerating consumer culture, Huxley repeatedly worried about how easily people trade aliveness for comfort. This sentence reads like a quiet companion to Brave New World’s louder warning: a civilization can be “stable” and still be spiritually starved. By insisting that development can continue “long after” the usual cut-off, Huxley also smuggles in a democratic provocation: growth isn’t owned by youth, status, or institutions. It’s owned by the person willing to look foolish, ask basic questions, and keep changing.

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Aldous Huxley

Aldous Huxley (July 26, 1894 - November 22, 1963) was a Novelist from England.

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