"A child's hope is that your father comes riding in on that white stallion and saves them. You can't make somebody love you the way you want them to love you, it's not a Leave it to Beaver type world. This isn't television. Life's a lot more cruel than that"
About this Quote
Underneath the tough talk is a bruised psychology. "You can't make somebody love you the way you want them to love you" is both boundary and confession: an admission that longing doesnt negotiate, that even the people who should love you (especially fathers) might not show up in the form you need. By addressing a "child's hope", he frames emotional expectation as something learned before you have defenses, which is why disappointment can feel less like a setback and more like a betrayal of the world order.
As a celebrity whose persona was built on grit and survival, Roberts uses plain language and pop references to make cruelty sound normal, almost inevitable. Thats the sting: the quote doesnt offer healing so much as permission to stop waiting for a scripted rescue - and to finally name the waiting itself as part of the damage.
Quote Details
| Topic | Father |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Roberts, Jake. (2026, January 15). A child's hope is that your father comes riding in on that white stallion and saves them. You can't make somebody love you the way you want them to love you, it's not a Leave it to Beaver type world. This isn't television. Life's a lot more cruel than that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-childs-hope-is-that-your-father-comes-riding-in-156182/
Chicago Style
Roberts, Jake. "A child's hope is that your father comes riding in on that white stallion and saves them. You can't make somebody love you the way you want them to love you, it's not a Leave it to Beaver type world. This isn't television. Life's a lot more cruel than that." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-childs-hope-is-that-your-father-comes-riding-in-156182/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A child's hope is that your father comes riding in on that white stallion and saves them. You can't make somebody love you the way you want them to love you, it's not a Leave it to Beaver type world. This isn't television. Life's a lot more cruel than that." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-childs-hope-is-that-your-father-comes-riding-in-156182/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







