"A child's kiss is magic. Why else would they be so stingy with them?"
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The intent is double: to flatter the sweetness adults project onto children, and to puncture that projection. Calling it “magic” admits the adult hunger for proof that we’re loved without conditions. The punchline, “Why else would they be so stingy with them?” slips in the uncomfortable truth that children are often the least interested in performing gratitude on demand. They give affection when it feels safe, when they want to, when the moment suits them - not when a grown-up leans in with expectation. That’s not cruelty; it’s agency.
Context matters: Fierstein’s voice is theatrical, warm, and tart. He’s writing from a world where chosen family, consent, and emotional honesty carry real stakes. The line reads as a gentle reminder that intimacy isn’t an entitlement. A child’s kiss isn’t a prize for good parenting or a receipt for love. It’s a tiny, unbiddable gift - which is exactly why it feels like magic.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fierstein, Harvey. (2026, January 17). A child's kiss is magic. Why else would they be so stingy with them? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-childs-kiss-is-magic-why-else-would-they-be-so-54915/
Chicago Style
Fierstein, Harvey. "A child's kiss is magic. Why else would they be so stingy with them?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-childs-kiss-is-magic-why-else-would-they-be-so-54915/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A child's kiss is magic. Why else would they be so stingy with them?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-childs-kiss-is-magic-why-else-would-they-be-so-54915/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








