"A conversation goes sometimes into personal things and that's nicer. You look to each other and you have a different picture, you get into a relationship"
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The most actorly part is the visual language. “You look to each other” and “different picture” frames relationship as a shift in perception, not a checklist of compatibility. It suggests that closeness isn’t built by exchanging facts but by re-rendering the other person in your mind. In performance terms, it’s the move from surface dialogue to subtext, from the lines to what’s underneath them. Schell implies that real conversation changes blocking: it puts two people in a new position toward each other.
There’s also a gentle argument against the transactional way we often talk now: networking, banter, “good conversation” as proof of charm. Schell is pointing at something less efficient and more consequential. Personal things derail the safe script; they create stakes. When that happens, you don’t just learn something about someone - you become implicated. “You get into a relationship” sounds passive, almost accidental, but that’s the truth he’s smuggling in: intimacy often arrives sideways, as a byproduct of talking honestly long enough that the room changes.
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| Topic | Relationship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schell, Maximilian. (2026, January 16). A conversation goes sometimes into personal things and that's nicer. You look to each other and you have a different picture, you get into a relationship. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-conversation-goes-sometimes-into-personal-108208/
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Schell, Maximilian. "A conversation goes sometimes into personal things and that's nicer. You look to each other and you have a different picture, you get into a relationship." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-conversation-goes-sometimes-into-personal-108208/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A conversation goes sometimes into personal things and that's nicer. You look to each other and you have a different picture, you get into a relationship." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-conversation-goes-sometimes-into-personal-108208/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




