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Daily Inspiration Quote by Truman Capote

"A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That's why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet"

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Capote’s line lands like a compliment and a knife at the same time. On the surface, it’s a tidy etiquette lesson: real conversation requires two people willing to listen, not one person auditioning for attention. Underneath, it’s a social x-ray from a writer who lived among charmers, climbers, and conversational performers. In Capote’s world - salons, cocktail parties, literary circles - talk is currency. People spend it to buy status, to seduce, to dominate the room. “Dialogue, not a monologue” isn’t just advice; it’s an accusation.

The wit hinges on scarcity. Capote borrows the logic of economics to describe intimacy: the rarer the ingredient, the rarer the meal. If good conversation requires “two intelligent talkers,” then most exchanges fail not because people are rude, but because the match is statistically unlikely. That’s a deliberately elitist framing, and Capote knows it. He’s flattering his ideal reader (you, presumably) while also confessing a fatigue with the social marketplace where everyone is selling a self.

There’s also a quiet anxiety tucked inside the aphorism. A “talker” isn’t the same as a thinker; it’s someone who can fence, improvise, read the room. Capote suggests intelligence is relational - it has to recognize another intelligence to become conversation at all. The sting is that modern life offers endless talking and surprisingly few meetings.

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Later attribution: The Age of Conversation (Gavin Heaton, Drew McLellan, 2007) modern compilationISBN: 9781847992994 · ID: OAgf2qGFHq4C
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Capote, Truman. (2026, February 8). A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That's why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-conversation-is-a-dialogue-not-a-monologue-2132/

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Capote, Truman. "A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That's why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-conversation-is-a-dialogue-not-a-monologue-2132/.

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"A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That's why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-conversation-is-a-dialogue-not-a-monologue-2132/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Truman Capote

Truman Capote (September 30, 1924 - August 25, 1984) was a Novelist from USA.

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