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Love & Passion Quote by Denise Richards

"A date once leaned in to kiss me, and he ended up kissing my cheek. He was a little offended, but I didn't want to kiss him just to not hurt his feelings"

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There is a particular kind of cultural clarity in admitting you let a kiss miss on purpose. Richards frames the moment with almost sitcom-level physical comedy - the near-miss, the cheek - but the joke is really a boundary delivered in a disarming register. The guy is "a little offended", as if access were the default setting and her face simply failed to cooperate. That small detail exposes the entitlement baked into many heterosexual dating scripts: a kiss as a performance of politeness, a tip for effort, a receipt for dinner.

The blunt hinge of the quote is the second sentence. Richards refuses the emotional blackmail hiding inside good manners: "I didn't want to kiss him just to not hurt his feelings". It reads like a correction to a whole generation of advice that trained women to manage men first and their own comfort second. The subtext is less "he wasn't my type" than "consent isn't a customer satisfaction survey". She names what often goes unnamed in dating culture - the pressure to smooth over disappointment with your body.

As an actress and public figure, Richards also knows how often women's choices get narrated as cruelty or tease. By owning the awkwardness, she flips the script: the offense belongs to him, but the responsibility doesn't. The cheek becomes a quiet, socially legible compromise - not a yes, not a scene, just a clean no delivered without apology.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Richards, Denise. (2026, January 17). A date once leaned in to kiss me, and he ended up kissing my cheek. He was a little offended, but I didn't want to kiss him just to not hurt his feelings. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-date-once-leaned-in-to-kiss-me-and-he-ended-up-44051/

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Richards, Denise. "A date once leaned in to kiss me, and he ended up kissing my cheek. He was a little offended, but I didn't want to kiss him just to not hurt his feelings." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-date-once-leaned-in-to-kiss-me-and-he-ended-up-44051/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A date once leaned in to kiss me, and he ended up kissing my cheek. He was a little offended, but I didn't want to kiss him just to not hurt his feelings." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-date-once-leaned-in-to-kiss-me-and-he-ended-up-44051/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Denise Richards (born February 17, 1972) is a Actress from USA.

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