"A fool flatters himself, a wise man flatters the fool"
About this Quote
Then Bulwer-Lytton twists the knife. The “wise man” doesn’t flatter himself; he flatters the fool. That reversal is the quote’s darker intelligence. Wisdom here isn’t saintly truth-telling. It’s social navigation, even soft manipulation. The wise man recognizes a reliable lever in human behavior: most people defend their self-image more fiercely than their interests. Offer them a polished version of themselves and they’ll hand you access, agreement, votes.
That’s where Bulwer-Lytton’s political identity quietly matters. In a parliamentary culture built on patronage, status, and public performance, flattery isn’t peripheral; it’s infrastructure. The line reads like an aside from someone who has watched debates where principle is less persuasive than ego management. Its intent isn’t to celebrate cynicism so much as to name a rule of the room: the quickest route to influence often runs through someone else’s vanity.
The subtext is unsettling because it implicates everyone. If the wise man’s advantage depends on flattering fools, then “wisdom” can slide into complicity. The quote doubles as warning: the moment you crave flattery, you become governable by it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Bulwer-Lytton, Edward G. (2026, January 18). A fool flatters himself, a wise man flatters the fool. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-fool-flatters-himself-a-wise-man-flatters-the-16963/
Chicago Style
Bulwer-Lytton, Edward G. "A fool flatters himself, a wise man flatters the fool." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-fool-flatters-himself-a-wise-man-flatters-the-16963/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A fool flatters himself, a wise man flatters the fool." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-fool-flatters-himself-a-wise-man-flatters-the-16963/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












