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"A friend is, as it were, a second self"

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Friendship, for Cicero, isnt a pleasant accessory to life; its a piece of the self made portable. "A friend is, as it were, a second self" lands with the cool authority of someone trying to rescue intimacy from sentimentality and turn it into ethics. The hedging phrase "as it were" matters: Cicero knows he is making a metaphysical claim inside a practical society, so he softens the leap even as he insists on it. A friend is not literally you, but the bond is strong enough to function like an additional conscience, witness, and safeguard.

The intent is partly consoling and partly disciplinary. Cicero elevates friendship above convenience or pleasure by tying it to virtue: you choose a friend the way you should choose your life, by character. Subtext: if your friend is a "second self", then using them is a form of self-degradation. Betrayal isnt merely a social rupture; its self-mutilation. The line quietly argues against transactional alliances that dominated late Republican Rome, where loyalty was often bought, brokered, and abandoned.

Context sharpens the stakes. Cicero wrote in a political culture collapsing into factional violence and strongman rule, where "friends" could mean clients, co-conspirators, or liabilities. Recasting friendship as an extension of the self is a counter-program: a moral relationship sturdy enough to outlast elections, exile, and public disgrace. Its also rhetorical self-defense from a politician-philosopher who had seen how quickly public ties rot. The sentence works because it compresses a social theory into one intimate image: the self duplicated, not for narcissism, but for accountability.

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TopicFriendship
SourceCicero, De Amicitia (On Friendship) — in the Laelius dialogue, standard English translations render a line as “A friend is, as it were, a second self.”
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Cicero (106 BC - 43 BC) was a Philosopher from Rome.

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