"A friend of mine described it this way: When they were born, it was like a meteor landed in our house and blew everything apart. We had to just put all the pieces back"
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The sly move is that the metaphor comes secondhand: “A friend of mine described it this way.” That little shield matters. It signals how difficult it can be, especially for mothers and public women, to admit that joy can arrive as chaos without being read as ungrateful. By attributing the line, she claims permission to speak an unsanctioned truth while keeping the tone conversational, almost confessional.
“Blew everything apart” captures the immediate reality - sleep, routines, couplehood, identity - getting scattered. Then the second sentence lands the deeper subtext: “We had to just put all the pieces back.” “Just” is doing a lot of work, minimizing what is actually a massive, ongoing labor of reconstruction. It’s not a return to normal; it’s a rebuild into something new, with different priorities and a different self. The intent isn’t to warn people off parenthood; it’s to reframe it as controlled demolition followed by improvisational architecture.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lahti, Christine. (2026, February 19). A friend of mine described it this way: When they were born, it was like a meteor landed in our house and blew everything apart. We had to just put all the pieces back. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-of-mine-described-it-this-way-when-they-44390/
Chicago Style
Lahti, Christine. "A friend of mine described it this way: When they were born, it was like a meteor landed in our house and blew everything apart. We had to just put all the pieces back." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-of-mine-described-it-this-way-when-they-44390/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A friend of mine described it this way: When they were born, it was like a meteor landed in our house and blew everything apart. We had to just put all the pieces back." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-of-mine-described-it-this-way-when-they-44390/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.







