"A friend of mine once told me that I can't screw up when I play my own music. I also take voice lessons, play other peoples' songs out of music books, and occasionally figure out how to play other people's music from records. This keeps my ears, fingers, and mind working"
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The intent is practical: stay sharp. But the subtext is more pointed, almost corrective. “Playing my own music” can become a closed loop where taste and habit reinforce each other, and mistakes get rebranded as “style.” Loeb signals a refusal to let personal authenticity become an excuse for stagnation. Voice lessons acknowledge the body as an instrument that needs maintenance. Music books represent literacy and discipline, the unglamorous reps. Learning from records is the opposite skill: ear training, mimicry, the messy detective work of pulling a song apart by feel.
Context matters here: Loeb emerged in an era when “confessional” pop rewarded individuality, and women in particular were often boxed into the idea that sincerity was the whole job. She’s pushing back with a musician’s worldview: sincerity is table stakes; competence is earned. The triad she ends on - ears, fingers, mind - lands because it’s holistic and slightly defiant. Art isn’t a vibe you protect. It’s a muscle you keep working, even when the spotlight tells you you’ve already arrived.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Loeb, Lisa. (n.d.). A friend of mine once told me that I can't screw up when I play my own music. I also take voice lessons, play other peoples' songs out of music books, and occasionally figure out how to play other people's music from records. This keeps my ears, fingers, and mind working. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-of-mine-once-told-me-that-i-cant-screw-121606/
Chicago Style
Loeb, Lisa. "A friend of mine once told me that I can't screw up when I play my own music. I also take voice lessons, play other peoples' songs out of music books, and occasionally figure out how to play other people's music from records. This keeps my ears, fingers, and mind working." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-of-mine-once-told-me-that-i-cant-screw-121606/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A friend of mine once told me that I can't screw up when I play my own music. I also take voice lessons, play other peoples' songs out of music books, and occasionally figure out how to play other people's music from records. This keeps my ears, fingers, and mind working." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-of-mine-once-told-me-that-i-cant-screw-121606/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




