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Love Quote by Shota Rustaveli

"A friend should spare himself no trouble for his friend's sake, he should give heart for heart, love as a road and a bridge"

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Friendship here is not a vibe, its a moral workload. Shota Rustaveli, the 12th-century Georgian poet-statesman behind The Knight in the Panther's Skin, writes from a courtly world where loyalty is currency and reputation is infrastructure. In that setting, "spare himself no trouble" lands less like sentimental advice and more like an ethic of disciplined action: to be a friend is to accept inconvenience as proof.

The phrasing "for his friend's sake" tightens the screws. Rustaveli is suspicious of performative devotion; the motive has to be outward-facing, not self-congratulatory. Then he doubles down with "give heart for heart", a line that insists friendship is reciprocal but not transactional. Its not barter ("I did this, now you owe me"); its mutual exposure, an exchange of vulnerability that risks real loss. The heart is not a token, its the seat of honor, courage, and intention in medieval poetic language.

The final image is the most culturally revealing: "love as a road and a bridge". Love isnt a private feeling; its public engineering. Roads and bridges are what make kingdoms cohere, what allow people, messages, and aid to move. Rustaveli turns affection into connective tissue, implying that the highest form of loyalty is logistical: you build passage where there was distance, you carry someone across what would stop them alone.

Subtext: friendship is a test of character under strain, and the point is not to feel deeply but to make connection possible. In a world of courts, quests, and fragile alliances, thats not romance. Its survival.

Quote Details

TopicFriendship
SourceThe Knight in the Panther’s Skin (tr. Marjory Scott Wardrop), stanza 685 (as transcribed by Global Grey ebooks).
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Rustaveli, Shota. (2026, February 23). A friend should spare himself no trouble for his friend's sake, he should give heart for heart, love as a road and a bridge. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-should-spare-himself-no-trouble-for-his-185652/

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Rustaveli, Shota. "A friend should spare himself no trouble for his friend's sake, he should give heart for heart, love as a road and a bridge." FixQuotes. February 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-should-spare-himself-no-trouble-for-his-185652/.

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"A friend should spare himself no trouble for his friend's sake, he should give heart for heart, love as a road and a bridge." FixQuotes, 23 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-should-spare-himself-no-trouble-for-his-185652/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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Shota Rustaveli (1160 AC - 1220 AC) was a Poet from Georgia.

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