"A friend should spare himself no trouble for his friend's sake, he should give heart for heart, love as a road and a bridge"
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The phrasing "for his friend's sake" tightens the screws. Rustaveli is suspicious of performative devotion; the motive has to be outward-facing, not self-congratulatory. Then he doubles down with "give heart for heart", a line that insists friendship is reciprocal but not transactional. Its not barter ("I did this, now you owe me"); its mutual exposure, an exchange of vulnerability that risks real loss. The heart is not a token, its the seat of honor, courage, and intention in medieval poetic language.
The final image is the most culturally revealing: "love as a road and a bridge". Love isnt a private feeling; its public engineering. Roads and bridges are what make kingdoms cohere, what allow people, messages, and aid to move. Rustaveli turns affection into connective tissue, implying that the highest form of loyalty is logistical: you build passage where there was distance, you carry someone across what would stop them alone.
Subtext: friendship is a test of character under strain, and the point is not to feel deeply but to make connection possible. In a world of courts, quests, and fragile alliances, thats not romance. Its survival.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | The Knight in the Panther’s Skin (tr. Marjory Scott Wardrop), stanza 685 (as transcribed by Global Grey ebooks). |
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"A friend should spare himself no trouble for his friend's sake, he should give heart for heart, love as a road and a bridge." FixQuotes, 23 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-friend-should-spare-himself-no-trouble-for-his-185652/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.












