"A gift, with a kind countenance, is a double present"
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As a clergyman writing in a culture steeped in public morality, Fuller is policing intention as much as etiquette. The subtext is theological and social: an action without the right spirit is spiritually thin, and a favor delivered with visible reluctance is a form of dominance. A “gift” can easily become a debt instrument; the countenance determines whether it frees the recipient or binds them.
The economy here is psychological. Kindness doesn’t merely “add” value; it changes the category of the act from transaction to fellowship. That’s why “countenance” matters more than “words.” Words can lie; a face leaks. Fuller’s wisdom endures because it captures a modern truth about giving in public - from philanthropy to Venmo requests: people don’t just remember what you did, they remember how you made them feel while doing it. In that sense, the second present isn’t politeness; it’s dignity.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Chicken Soup for the Gardener's Soul (Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, 2012) modern compilation
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"A gift, with a kind countenance, is a double present." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-gift-with-a-kind-countenance-is-a-double-present-2037/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.








