"A good balance of winning and losing is important. If you just win all the time, you won't get anything out of it; having some tough losses can be really important"
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What makes the quote work is its refusal to romanticize victory. “If you just win all the time” isn’t aspirational; it’s portrayed as a trap. Shue frames loss not as a character-building poster slogan, but as information: losses are the moments that force you to revise your story about yourself. In a culture that markets invincibility as a brand, he argues for the value of data points that bruise the ego. Tough losses are “really important” because they puncture entitlement, expose weak spots, and clarify what was luck versus skill.
The intent feels practical, not preachy: recalibrate your relationship to achievement so it doesn’t become a narcotic. In entertainment especially, where “success” often arrives disconnected from control, the idea of balance is also a way of reclaiming agency. If losing is inevitable, you can either treat it as shame or as proof you’re doing something real enough to resist you.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shue, Andrew. (2026, January 17). A good balance of winning and losing is important. If you just win all the time, you won't get anything out of it; having some tough losses can be really important. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-balance-of-winning-and-losing-is-important-60975/
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Shue, Andrew. "A good balance of winning and losing is important. If you just win all the time, you won't get anything out of it; having some tough losses can be really important." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-balance-of-winning-and-losing-is-important-60975/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A good balance of winning and losing is important. If you just win all the time, you won't get anything out of it; having some tough losses can be really important." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-balance-of-winning-and-losing-is-important-60975/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










