"A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something"
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Then comes the pivot: “after a while, he knows something.” That “something” is deliciously nonspecific, as if knowledge is an accidental byproduct of basic courtesy. Mizner is needling a culture that confuses talk with substance. The listener learns because everyone else is too busy selling themselves to notice what they’re revealing: their insecurities, their motives, their weaknesses, their tells. Listening becomes intelligence work.
The gendered “he” isn’t incidental either; it reflects a period when public life was coded male, and “good listener” reads as an unglamorous role, almost suspiciously passive. Mizner rehabilitates it by attaching payoff: social access now, information later. It’s a maxim for the backstage operator, not the star.
Underneath the wit is a cold observation about status. People reward you for making them feel interesting, and the reward comes with data. Mizner’s cynicism lands because it’s hard to unsee: most rooms are full of talkers auditioning, while the listener quietly collects the plot.
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Mizner, Wilson. (2026, January 18). A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-listener-is-not-only-popular-everywhere-10203/
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Mizner, Wilson. "A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-listener-is-not-only-popular-everywhere-10203/.
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"A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-listener-is-not-only-popular-everywhere-10203/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.









