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Motherhood Quote by Chanakya

"A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night"

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It lands with the blunt confidence of an instruction manual, which is exactly the point: this line isn’t flirting with metaphor so much as laying down a social technology. Attributed to Chanakya, the Mauryan-era political strategist, it treats marriage less as companionship than as governance by other means. The “good wife” is defined as an all-in-one institution designed to stabilize a man’s life: childcare logistics (“mother”), domestic loyalty (“sister”), sexual access (“prostitute”). Each comparison is transactional, chosen for function rather than affection. The rhetorical punch comes from the stacking: three roles, three time slots, no remainder of the day left for her own selfhood.

The subtext is a worldview where order is preserved through disciplined hierarchies and clearly assigned duties. Chanakya’s political writing is often about control, incentives, and managing risk; here, the “risk” is the unruly private sphere. By mapping a woman’s identity onto a schedule, the quote imagines intimacy as labor that must be reliably delivered. Even the shock word “prostitute” works like a compliance mechanism: it normalizes a double standard where male desire is legitimate and female desire is irrelevant, while also smuggling in the idea that sexual availability is part of a wife’s job description.

Context matters: in patriarchal court cultures, marriage was tied to lineage, inheritance, reputation, and alliance-building. This line reads like elite advice for maintaining male focus and social continuity. Its cruelty is also its clarity: it doesn’t argue for women’s subordination; it assumes it, then optimizes it.

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TopicHusband & Wife
Source
Later attribution: Fall in Love but Rise in Romance (Manohar Dev, 2026) modern compilationID: 5LPCEQAAQBAJ
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... A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does, and pleases him like a prostitute in the night.”-Chanakya History reveals that nobody asked for woman's wish. If a man ...
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Chanakya. (2026, February 26). A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-wife-is-one-who-serves-her-husband-in-the-30455/

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Chanakya. "A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night." FixQuotes. February 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-wife-is-one-who-serves-her-husband-in-the-30455/.

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"A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night." FixQuotes, 26 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-wife-is-one-who-serves-her-husband-in-the-30455/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.

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Chanakya (350 BC - 275 BC) was a Politician from India.

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