"A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night"
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The subtext is a worldview where order is preserved through disciplined hierarchies and clearly assigned duties. Chanakya’s political writing is often about control, incentives, and managing risk; here, the “risk” is the unruly private sphere. By mapping a woman’s identity onto a schedule, the quote imagines intimacy as labor that must be reliably delivered. Even the shock word “prostitute” works like a compliance mechanism: it normalizes a double standard where male desire is legitimate and female desire is irrelevant, while also smuggling in the idea that sexual availability is part of a wife’s job description.
Context matters: in patriarchal court cultures, marriage was tied to lineage, inheritance, reputation, and alliance-building. This line reads like elite advice for maintaining male focus and social continuity. Its cruelty is also its clarity: it doesn’t argue for women’s subordination; it assumes it, then optimizes it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Later attribution: Fall in Love but Rise in Romance (Manohar Dev, 2026) modern compilationID: 5LPCEQAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does, and pleases him like a prostitute in the night.”-Chanakya History reveals that nobody asked for woman's wish. If a man ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chanakya. (2026, February 26). A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-wife-is-one-who-serves-her-husband-in-the-30455/
Chicago Style
Chanakya. "A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night." FixQuotes. February 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-wife-is-one-who-serves-her-husband-in-the-30455/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night." FixQuotes, 26 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-wife-is-one-who-serves-her-husband-in-the-30455/. Accessed 7 Mar. 2026.









