"A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our silence, which costs us nothing"
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The subtext is a quiet indictment of social pleasure. Speaking ill is rarely framed as cruelty in the moment; it masquerades as wit, intimacy, even civic duty ("I'm just being honest"). Tillotson punctures that self-justification by pointing out how little sacrifice is involved in abstaining. Silence "costs us nothing" is less comfort than accusation: if restraint is free, what does it say about us when we still choose the cheap thrill of disparagement?
Context matters. As a late-17th-century Anglican divine and Archbishop of Canterbury in the wake of civil war, Restoration backlash, and sectarian suspicion, Tillotson preached a Christianity of moderation and public order. Words were not merely personal expression; they were social forces that could inflame factions, damage reputations in tight communities, and corrode trust. The quote carries that pastoral pragmatism: curb the tongue, reduce the temperature, keep the peace.
Read now, it feels eerily tailored to the economics of modern attention. Outrage and gossip are monetized; silence is framed as weakness. Tillotson insists it's often the most ethical bargain you'll ever make.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tillotson, John. (2026, January 15). A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our silence, which costs us nothing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-word-is-an-easy-obligation-but-not-to-135166/
Chicago Style
Tillotson, John. "A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our silence, which costs us nothing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-word-is-an-easy-obligation-but-not-to-135166/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our silence, which costs us nothing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-word-is-an-easy-obligation-but-not-to-135166/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.














