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Daily Inspiration Quote by William Hazlitt

"A grave blockhead should always go about with a lively one - they show one another off to the best advantage"

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Hazlitt has a talent for turning social observation into a small act of cruelty that feels, uncomfortably, true. A "grave blockhead" is not just dull; he is solemnly dull, the kind of person who treats his own seriousness as proof of depth. Pair him with a "lively one" and, suddenly, both become legible. The wit looks sharper against the heavy background; the heavy figure looks more "respectable" beside the sparkle. It is an aesthetic of contrast, but also a strategy of survival in polite society: you borrow someone else's energy or authority the way you borrow a lamp to make your own face look better.

The line’s sting is in its implied cynicism about companionship. Hazlitt isn’t describing friendship as mutual understanding; he’s describing it as mutual marketing. "They show one another off" reduces human pairing to display, like objects arranged to flatter each other’s lines. The best advantage is not moral improvement; it’s social optics. He’s also poking at a familiar cultural arrangement: the comedian with the straight man, the charismatic talker with the taciturn "serious" type. Each role depends on the other to land.

Context matters here. Hazlitt, a Romantic-era critic who spent his life around writers, salons, and public disputation, understood that personality could function like rhetoric. In a world where reputation was currency and conversation a kind of sport, pairing wasn’t accidental. It was casting. The joke is that the blockhead thinks he’s the lead. Hazlitt knows he’s the lighting.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hazlitt, William. (2026, January 17). A grave blockhead should always go about with a lively one - they show one another off to the best advantage. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-grave-blockhead-should-always-go-about-with-a-78910/

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Hazlitt, William. "A grave blockhead should always go about with a lively one - they show one another off to the best advantage." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-grave-blockhead-should-always-go-about-with-a-78910/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A grave blockhead should always go about with a lively one - they show one another off to the best advantage." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-grave-blockhead-should-always-go-about-with-a-78910/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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William Hazlitt

William Hazlitt (April 10, 1778 - September 18, 1830) was a Critic from England.

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