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Love Quote by Frank Morgan

"A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others"

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It flatters the listener while quietly shifting the moral spotlight away from interior virtue and onto public reception - a move that feels especially Hollywood-adjacent. Frank Morgan, best remembered as the genial authority figure (The Wizard of Oz’s Wizard), specialized in performances where charm passes for credibility. This line carries that same sleight of hand: it treats love not as an ethical practice but as a kind of social proof.

The intent is almost consoling. If you fear your love is messy, insufficient, or misunderstood, the quote offers a cleaner metric: other people’s affection becomes the verdict on your heart. That’s emotionally seductive because it turns a private uncertainty into a visible scoreboard. The subtext, though, is sharper. Being “loved by others” is rarely a pure reflection of one’s character; it’s also a referendum on likability, status, beauty, usefulness, even timing. By framing that referendum as judgment, the line smuggles in a cultural assumption: that worth is confirmed externally, preferably by an audience.

In context, it reads like mid-century show-business wisdom: relationships as optics, goodness as something you can’t declare about yourself but must have bestowed on you. There’s a faint admonition too - if you aren’t loved, interrogate your heart. That can encourage generosity and attentiveness, yes, but it also risks punishing the lonely and rewarding the performative. The quote works because it’s tidy, memorable, and a little ruthless: it tells you the world is the mirror, even when mirrors distort.

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Morgan, Frank. (2026, January 13). A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-heart-is-not-judged-by-how-much-you-love-but-by-170647/

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Morgan, Frank. "A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-heart-is-not-judged-by-how-much-you-love-but-by-170647/.

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"A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-heart-is-not-judged-by-how-much-you-love-but-by-170647/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Frank Morgan (June 1, 1890 - September 18, 1949) was a Actor from USA.

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