"A kiss, when all is said, what is it? A rosy dot placed on the 'I' in loving; Tis a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear"
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Then he flips from print to secrecy. A kiss is "a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear", recasting intimacy as information transfer. The subtext is mischievous: lovers are conspirators, and the body is their encrypted channel. You don't tell this kind of truth where it can be overheard or disputed; you deliver it through contact, where meaning is felt before it's understood. It's sensual, but also strategic - a way of saying the unsayable without exposing it to the social world that polices speech.
In Rostand's fin-de-siecle context - a France intoxicated with romance on stage but constrained by propriety off it - that matters. The kiss becomes a loophole in decorum: a public gesture that can look harmless while carrying private, irrevocable content. He makes tenderness clever, and in doing so, makes it safer to admit.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rostand, Edmond. (2026, January 15). A kiss, when all is said, what is it? A rosy dot placed on the 'I' in loving; Tis a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-kiss-when-all-is-said-what-is-it-a-rosy-dot-141395/
Chicago Style
Rostand, Edmond. "A kiss, when all is said, what is it? A rosy dot placed on the 'I' in loving; Tis a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-kiss-when-all-is-said-what-is-it-a-rosy-dot-141395/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A kiss, when all is said, what is it? A rosy dot placed on the 'I' in loving; Tis a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-kiss-when-all-is-said-what-is-it-a-rosy-dot-141395/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






