"A lawyer I once knew told me of a strange case, a suffragette who had never married. After her death, he opened her trunk and discovered 50 wedding gowns"
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The subtext is less about hypocrisy than about the psychic paperwork women were forced to file. Early 20th-century suffrage didn’t erase the marriage economy; it exposed how deep it ran. Fifty gowns reads as excess, almost comic hoarding, but the number also signals repetition: the same future rehearsed over and over, purchased and preserved, never performed. It turns the “wedding dress” into a kind of costume for citizenship, a uniform you’re told you’ll need to be legible.
Young’s intent is slyly destabilizing. She refuses the clean moral that either (a) feminists secretly want husbands or (b) feminists are purer for rejecting them. Instead, she shows desire and ideology cohabiting uncomfortably. The suffragette’s trunk becomes a private archive of pressure: fantasies, bargains, contingencies, maybe even irony. Was she waiting? Defying? Collecting as protest? The tale won’t let you settle.
It works because it converts a political identity into a haunting still life. The movement is public, principled, argumentative; the gowns are silent, costly, intimate. Between them sits the real target: a culture that made “choice” feel like something you had to stockpile.
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Young, Marguerite. (2026, January 17). A lawyer I once knew told me of a strange case, a suffragette who had never married. After her death, he opened her trunk and discovered 50 wedding gowns. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lawyer-i-once-knew-told-me-of-a-strange-case-a-69499/
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Young, Marguerite. "A lawyer I once knew told me of a strange case, a suffragette who had never married. After her death, he opened her trunk and discovered 50 wedding gowns." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lawyer-i-once-knew-told-me-of-a-strange-case-a-69499/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lawyer I once knew told me of a strange case, a suffragette who had never married. After her death, he opened her trunk and discovered 50 wedding gowns." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lawyer-i-once-knew-told-me-of-a-strange-case-a-69499/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





