"A leader is a person you will follow to a place you wouldn't go by yourself"
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The subtext is that leadership is essentially a consent-based transaction. You don’t get to declare yourself a leader; other people vote with their feet. “Wouldn’t go by yourself” also reframes motivation: it’s not about being pushed, it’s about being persuaded that the risk is survivable and the outcome worth it. Good leaders, in this telling, are translators of danger. They make the unfamiliar legible, the daunting doable, and the lonely communal.
There’s a sharper edge, too. If leadership is measured by how far people will follow you beyond their comfort zone, it explains why so many “leaders” default to safe, cosmetic change: it’s easier to collect agreement for familiar destinations. The quote also hints at the moral hazard baked into followership. People can be led into growth, or into harm, and the metric (would you follow?) doesn’t itself certify virtue. Barker’s intent reads like a practical test for real influence, but it doubles as a warning label: the power to take people where they wouldn’t go alone is exactly what makes leadership consequential.
Quote Details
| Topic | Leadership |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: Paradigms: The Business of Discovering the Future (Joel A. Barker, 1992)
Evidence: Chapter 12 ("Managers, Leaders, and Paradigms"), p. 164. Primary-source match: Barker gives it explicitly as his definition of a leader: “A leader is a person you will follow to a place you wouldn't go by yourself.” The line appears in Chapter 12 on p. 164 in the widely distributed HarperBusiness... Other candidates (2) Improving Patient Satisfaction Now (Anne-Marie Nelson, 1997) compilation95.0% ... Joel Barker , author of Future Edge , says that a leader is " a person you will follow to a place you wouldn't go... Fictional last words in video games (Joel A. Barker) compilation40.2% raone he refers to how zauber will follow him to the grave reyus so much like your mother wh |
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"A leader is a person you will follow to a place you wouldn't go by yourself." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-leader-is-a-person-you-will-follow-to-a-place-162850/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.













