"A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal"
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Wilde lands the blade where Victorian morality pretended to be strongest: sincerity. He treats it not as a virtue but as a solvent. “A little sincerity” is “dangerous” because it punctures the social fabric just enough to expose hypocrisy without offering a livable alternative. It’s the dinner-party confession that turns a polished performance into an awkward tableau, the moral tremor that makes everyone suddenly aware they’ve been acting.
Then he twists the screw: “a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.” In Wilde’s world, sincerity isn’t a cleansing fire; it’s social suicide. Total honesty doesn’t merely embarrass you, it destroys your access to the very systems that make life workable - reputation, class, romance, patronage. The line is funny because it’s delivered like a safety warning, but it’s also a bleak report from a culture built on euphemism. Wilde knows that society rewards the appearance of virtue more reliably than virtue itself, and that “authenticity” is often tolerated only when it’s decorative.
The deeper joke is that Wilde, the consummate stylist, makes sincerity sound like an overdose. Coming from a playwright whose characters weaponize manners and epigrams, it’s also self-defense: if truth is fatal, then artifice becomes a survival skill, even a moral strategy. Read against Wilde’s own biography - punished by a legal system claiming moral authority - the quip darkens into something like evidence. In a world that polices desire and devours candor, sincerity isn’t just risky; it’s indictable.
Then he twists the screw: “a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.” In Wilde’s world, sincerity isn’t a cleansing fire; it’s social suicide. Total honesty doesn’t merely embarrass you, it destroys your access to the very systems that make life workable - reputation, class, romance, patronage. The line is funny because it’s delivered like a safety warning, but it’s also a bleak report from a culture built on euphemism. Wilde knows that society rewards the appearance of virtue more reliably than virtue itself, and that “authenticity” is often tolerated only when it’s decorative.
The deeper joke is that Wilde, the consummate stylist, makes sincerity sound like an overdose. Coming from a playwright whose characters weaponize manners and epigrams, it’s also self-defense: if truth is fatal, then artifice becomes a survival skill, even a moral strategy. Read against Wilde’s own biography - punished by a legal system claiming moral authority - the quip darkens into something like evidence. In a world that polices desire and devours candor, sincerity isn’t just risky; it’s indictable.
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| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Attributed to Oscar Wilde; commonly cited line: "A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal." See Wikiquote (Oscar Wilde) for citations and attributions. |
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