"A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life"
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“I figured, Let’s get it straight” is doing double duty. It’s plainspoken, almost casual, yet the phrase can’t help but carry a sly charge given the subject. Hunter frames the admission with a kind of pragmatic clarity: yes, it happened; yes, it lasted long enough to be real. That specificity (“two to three years”) signals credibility, a refusal to be trapped in euphemism or insinuation. It also rejects the idea that same-sex relationships are fleeting “phases” or scandalous accidents.
Then comes the cultural pivot: “threads in the tapestry of my whole life.” It’s a beautifully disarming metaphor because it denies the audience the easy climax. Hunter doesn’t dramatize the relationship as tragedy or triumph; he demotes it from headline to fabric. Subtext: your obsession says more about your appetite for a single salacious fact than it does about my identity. Context matters here: a survivor of the studio system speaking from a later era, when saying this out loud finally becomes less career suicide and more reclamation. The line is less about outing than about proportion.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hunter, Tab. (n.d.). A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-has-been-written-about-tony-perkins-and-151495/
Chicago Style
Hunter, Tab. "A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-has-been-written-about-tony-perkins-and-151495/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-has-been-written-about-tony-perkins-and-151495/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.
