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"A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life"

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Tab Hunter’s voice here is the sound of a man tugging his own narrative back from the tabloids. The first move is defensive but controlled: “A lot has been written” doesn’t just mean gossip exists, it means other people have been authoring his life. In mid-century Hollywood, especially for a matinee idol whose career depended on a carefully managed heterosexual fantasy, that authorship wasn’t harmless chatter; it was leverage, threat, and sometimes extortion. So the intent is corrective, not confessional. He’s not asking for absolution. He’s establishing jurisdiction.

“I figured, Let’s get it straight” is doing double duty. It’s plainspoken, almost casual, yet the phrase can’t help but carry a sly charge given the subject. Hunter frames the admission with a kind of pragmatic clarity: yes, it happened; yes, it lasted long enough to be real. That specificity (“two to three years”) signals credibility, a refusal to be trapped in euphemism or insinuation. It also rejects the idea that same-sex relationships are fleeting “phases” or scandalous accidents.

Then comes the cultural pivot: “threads in the tapestry of my whole life.” It’s a beautifully disarming metaphor because it denies the audience the easy climax. Hunter doesn’t dramatize the relationship as tragedy or triumph; he demotes it from headline to fabric. Subtext: your obsession says more about your appetite for a single salacious fact than it does about my identity. Context matters here: a survivor of the studio system speaking from a later era, when saying this out loud finally becomes less career suicide and more reclamation. The line is less about outing than about proportion.

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Hunter, Tab. (n.d.). A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-has-been-written-about-tony-perkins-and-151495/

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Hunter, Tab. "A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-has-been-written-about-tony-perkins-and-151495/.

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"A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-has-been-written-about-tony-perkins-and-151495/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Tab Hunter (born July 11, 1931) is a Actor from USA.

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