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Creativity Quote by Cynthia Weil

"A lot of guys spend their lives saying no because it's an easier way to keep your job"

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Gatekeeping often wears a necktie and calls itself professionalism. Cynthia Weil, who spent a lifetime in the pop song trenches where “yes” can mean risk, ego, money, and embarrassment, nails a career-long truth about the creative economy: refusal is a shield. “A lot of guys” isn’t just a casual gendered swipe; it’s a diagnosis of an industry historically staffed by male decision-makers whose safest move is to reject the unfamiliar, the messy, the not-yet-proven. Saying no keeps you from being blamed for the flop. It also quietly guarantees you’ll never be credited for the breakthrough.

The line works because it turns a common myth inside out. We like to imagine tastemakers as visionaries with golden ears. Weil suggests many are simply office workers managing downside. “Easier” is the tell: the system rewards risk aversion, not curiosity. In music, where hits are notoriously hard to predict, the rational career move becomes emotional conservatism. No is quick, final, and defensible. Yes requires taste, patience, and the willingness to look wrong in public.

Coming from Weil - a woman who helped shape the Brill Building era yet still had to fight for space in rooms full of confident male certainty - the quote carries extra bite. It’s not just about individual cowardice; it’s about institutional incentives that turn caution into culture. The subtext: the industry doesn’t merely discover talent, it manufactures it by choosing when to stop saying no.

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Weil, Cynthia. (n.d.). A lot of guys spend their lives saying no because it's an easier way to keep your job. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-guys-spend-their-lives-saying-no-because-124009/

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Weil, Cynthia. "A lot of guys spend their lives saying no because it's an easier way to keep your job." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-guys-spend-their-lives-saying-no-because-124009/.

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"A lot of guys spend their lives saying no because it's an easier way to keep your job." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-guys-spend-their-lives-saying-no-because-124009/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Cynthia Weil (October 18, 1940 - June 1, 2023) was a Musician from USA.

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