"A lot of life is dealing with your curse, dealing with the cards you were given that aren't so nice. Does it make you into a monster, or can you temper it in some way, or accept it and go in some other direction?"
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Craven’s phrasing sets up a moral fork with genre-level clarity: "Does it make you into a monster" is the bluntest version of the fear that pain reproduces itself. Horror villains are often origin stories of unprocessed damage; victims can become perpetrators with terrifying efficiency. Then he offers two less cinematic, more human options: "temper it" or "accept it and go in some other direction". Tempering suggests heat and craft - you don’t erase the metal, you refine it. Acceptance isn’t surrender; it’s the refusal to let the curse write your whole script.
The subtext is personal but also cultural. Coming from a director who repeatedly explored the way violence and repression ricochet through families, suburbs, and media, this reads like a thesis statement for modern horror: the scariest thing isn’t the monster under the bed, it’s the part of you that learns to live with the bed shaking. Craven isn’t romanticizing suffering; he’s naming the real stakes of it: transformation, or repetition.
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Craven, Wes. (2026, January 16). A lot of life is dealing with your curse, dealing with the cards you were given that aren't so nice. Does it make you into a monster, or can you temper it in some way, or accept it and go in some other direction? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-life-is-dealing-with-your-curse-dealing-116522/
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Craven, Wes. "A lot of life is dealing with your curse, dealing with the cards you were given that aren't so nice. Does it make you into a monster, or can you temper it in some way, or accept it and go in some other direction?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-life-is-dealing-with-your-curse-dealing-116522/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot of life is dealing with your curse, dealing with the cards you were given that aren't so nice. Does it make you into a monster, or can you temper it in some way, or accept it and go in some other direction?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-life-is-dealing-with-your-curse-dealing-116522/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





