"A lot of people say I'm bent, and I've heard it so many times that I've almost learned to accept it"
About this Quote
The sentence structure matters. “A lot of people say” pushes responsibility outward, toward the anonymous crowd that polices norms without ever owning the damage. Then comes the pivot: “I’ve heard it so many times” shifts from gossip to saturation, from public judgment to private acoustics. Springfield isn’t confessing identity so much as describing how labeling works: it doesn’t have to be true to become psychologically invasive.
In the context of mid-century pop stardom, this is especially sharp. Springfield’s image traded on sophistication and control, yet her era demanded compulsory straightness, especially from women whose desirability was part of the product. The quote captures the asymmetry: the audience feels entitled to name her, while she’s expected to smile through it. “Almost learned to accept it” is the bleak punchline. Not acceptance as pride, but acceptance as fatigue - the quiet capitulation that comes when your life gets narrated at you long enough.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Springfield, Dusty. (n.d.). A lot of people say I'm bent, and I've heard it so many times that I've almost learned to accept it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-people-say-im-bent-and-ive-heard-it-so-76890/
Chicago Style
Springfield, Dusty. "A lot of people say I'm bent, and I've heard it so many times that I've almost learned to accept it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-people-say-im-bent-and-ive-heard-it-so-76890/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot of people say I'm bent, and I've heard it so many times that I've almost learned to accept it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-people-say-im-bent-and-ive-heard-it-so-76890/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







