"A lot of people think I'm cynical when I talk about acting. The truth of the matter is, I just don't want someone to get some lame advice that will send them in the wrong direction"
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Her real target is "lame advice" - the kind that flatters a beginner’s ego or offers a fake roadmap. By calling it lame, she punctures the motivational-speech economy that clings to show business. The subtext is protective but also corrective: if someone takes bad guidance seriously, they don’t just waste time, they build a whole identity around a wrong premise ("If I’m not booking, I must not want it enough"). Tamblyn’s bluntness is a way of refusing to participate in that quiet cruelty.
There’s also a savvy awareness of how women in particular get policed for tone. A woman speaking plainly about power, gatekeeping, or luck gets tagged as negative; a man gets labeled "realistic". Tamblyn is asking to be heard as someone trying to reduce harm, not kill the dream - to treat acting less like a fairy tale and more like a high-variance job where advice should be specific, situational, and honest.
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Tamblyn, Amber. (n.d.). A lot of people think I'm cynical when I talk about acting. The truth of the matter is, I just don't want someone to get some lame advice that will send them in the wrong direction. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-people-think-im-cynical-when-i-talk-35852/
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Tamblyn, Amber. "A lot of people think I'm cynical when I talk about acting. The truth of the matter is, I just don't want someone to get some lame advice that will send them in the wrong direction." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-people-think-im-cynical-when-i-talk-35852/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot of people think I'm cynical when I talk about acting. The truth of the matter is, I just don't want someone to get some lame advice that will send them in the wrong direction." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-people-think-im-cynical-when-i-talk-35852/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.







