"A lot of the stuff that I do with Betty is in the eyes. A lot of the feelings that I evoke with her are unspoken, so that's been fun to play with"
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The subtext is that Betty’s life is built around repression as a social skill. Midcentury femininity, especially in Mad Men’s world, rewards the polished exterior and punishes the public leak. So when Jones says “in the eyes,” she’s pointing to the only place Betty can safely tell the truth. It’s also a sly acknowledgment of the character’s reputation: viewers often call Betty cold, spoiled, or cruel. Jones is arguing that the “coldness” is a language, not a lack of feeling. The feelings are there; they’re just trapped behind manners, marriage, and the expectation that a woman’s unhappiness should stay decorative.
Context matters: Mad Men is a show about surfaces - advertising, identities, marriages - and Betty is one of its sharpest critiques of the era’s domestic image-making. Playing “unspoken” emotions becomes a way to dramatize how limited her options are. “Fun to play with” isn’t flippant; it’s the actor’s pleasure in constraint, the thrill of making silence do the heavy lifting. In a culture that often demands women be either likable or loud, Jones describes a third mode: presence as pressure.
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Jones, January. (n.d.). A lot of the stuff that I do with Betty is in the eyes. A lot of the feelings that I evoke with her are unspoken, so that's been fun to play with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-the-stuff-that-i-do-with-betty-is-in-the-56349/
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Jones, January. "A lot of the stuff that I do with Betty is in the eyes. A lot of the feelings that I evoke with her are unspoken, so that's been fun to play with." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-the-stuff-that-i-do-with-betty-is-in-the-56349/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot of the stuff that I do with Betty is in the eyes. A lot of the feelings that I evoke with her are unspoken, so that's been fun to play with." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-the-stuff-that-i-do-with-betty-is-in-the-56349/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.




