"A lot of things happened when I left there, and to be fair they treated me really bad, and now I have to play against them so I don't have any feelings for them at all"
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The key move is the pivot: “to be fair” pretends to balance the scales, but it actually functions as a moral permission slip. He’s not offering nuance so much as authorizing the coldness he’s about to claim. “They treated me really bad” is blunt, childlike grammar for an adult grievance - the simplicity telegraphs how personally he took it, how little it’s been processed into something diplomatic.
Then comes the performance of professionalism: “now I have to play against them.” It’s not “I’m going to,” it’s “I have to” - duty, contract, inevitability. That framing lets him recast bitterness as necessity, a worker doing a job rather than an ex seeking revenge. The final line, “I don’t have any feelings for them at all,” is the tell. Total emotional absence is rarely true; it’s a defensive overcorrection. Fans expect sentiment in a homecoming; rivals expect edge. Lampard offers neither warmth nor theatrics, just a hard reset - the kind that says the breakup wasn’t mutual, and the easiest way to survive the narrative is to refuse it.
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| Topic | Moving On |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lampard, Frank. (2026, January 17). A lot of things happened when I left there, and to be fair they treated me really bad, and now I have to play against them so I don't have any feelings for them at all. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-things-happened-when-i-left-there-and-to-46691/
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Lampard, Frank. "A lot of things happened when I left there, and to be fair they treated me really bad, and now I have to play against them so I don't have any feelings for them at all." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-things-happened-when-i-left-there-and-to-46691/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot of things happened when I left there, and to be fair they treated me really bad, and now I have to play against them so I don't have any feelings for them at all." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-things-happened-when-i-left-there-and-to-46691/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.





