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Motivation Quote by Elvis Stojko

"A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way"

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Elvis Stojko frames trauma the way elite athletes are trained to frame everything: as an ordeal that can be metabolized into advantage. The phrasing is telling. "A lot of times" hedges against the cheap inspirational poster version of suffering; he’s not promising redemption, just noting a pattern he’s seen in himself and others. Then he shifts from the clinical ("traumatic", "emotionally difficult") to the almost private ("spiritually stronger"), a jump that signals how recovery often happens off the scoreboard, in the parts of the self that don’t get judges’ marks.

The subtext is athletic realism: pain is inevitable, but meaning is optional. Stojko isn’t romanticizing trauma so much as reclaiming agency over it. "You come back" implies a return to competition, to public life, to the pressure-cooker - but not as the same person. "It changes you in a way" is deliberately unfinished, resisting tidy narratives. Trauma doesn’t upgrade you like software; it rewires you, sometimes unevenly, sometimes permanently.

Context matters because sport is one of the few cultural arenas that demands suffering in public while offering almost no language for what it costs. Skaters, especially, are asked to make the brutal look weightless. Stojko’s line punctures that performance. He suggests strength isn’t just resilience-as-brand; it’s an internal recalibration after the body and psyche have been tested. The intent reads less like motivation and more like permission: to admit damage, and still claim transformation.

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Stojko, Elvis. (2026, January 15). A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-when-you-go-through-a-very-148008/

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Stojko, Elvis. "A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-when-you-go-through-a-very-148008/.

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"A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-when-you-go-through-a-very-148008/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Elvis Stojko

Elvis Stojko (born March 22, 1972) is a Athlete from Canada.

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