"A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way"
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The subtext is athletic realism: pain is inevitable, but meaning is optional. Stojko isn’t romanticizing trauma so much as reclaiming agency over it. "You come back" implies a return to competition, to public life, to the pressure-cooker - but not as the same person. "It changes you in a way" is deliberately unfinished, resisting tidy narratives. Trauma doesn’t upgrade you like software; it rewires you, sometimes unevenly, sometimes permanently.
Context matters because sport is one of the few cultural arenas that demands suffering in public while offering almost no language for what it costs. Skaters, especially, are asked to make the brutal look weightless. Stojko’s line punctures that performance. He suggests strength isn’t just resilience-as-brand; it’s an internal recalibration after the body and psyche have been tested. The intent reads less like motivation and more like permission: to admit damage, and still claim transformation.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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Stojko, Elvis. (2026, January 15). A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-when-you-go-through-a-very-148008/
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Stojko, Elvis. "A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-when-you-go-through-a-very-148008/.
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"A lot of times when you go through a very traumatic situation and it's emotionally difficult to deal with you come back spiritually stronger. It changes you in a way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-when-you-go-through-a-very-148008/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.







