"A lot of times, women don't get the male perspective in regards to a relationship, what men go through when they're not really dealing well"
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The line also subtly reframes “the male perspective” as something that can be misunderstood, not malicious. That’s a strategic move in a media ecosystem where male pain can be treated either as a punchline or as a prelude to excusing bad behavior. Chestnut’s intent sits in the narrow middle: validate what men “go through” without explicitly asking for a free pass.
Context matters because Chestnut’s persona - romantic lead, steady presence, mature heartthrob - carries credibility with audiences who might otherwise dismiss men’s emotional claims as grievance. He’s not speaking like a guru; he’s speaking like someone who’s spent years performing love stories and noticing what the scripts leave out: the interior life of the guy who is failing quietly.
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| Topic | Relationship |
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Chestnut, Morris. (2026, January 16). A lot of times, women don't get the male perspective in regards to a relationship, what men go through when they're not really dealing well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-women-dont-get-the-male-128869/
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Chestnut, Morris. "A lot of times, women don't get the male perspective in regards to a relationship, what men go through when they're not really dealing well." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-women-dont-get-the-male-128869/.
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"A lot of times, women don't get the male perspective in regards to a relationship, what men go through when they're not really dealing well." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-times-women-dont-get-the-male-128869/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




