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"A lot of what I've been learning in the last two years is due to therapy - about my sexuality, why things go wrong, why relationships haven't worked. It isn't anything to do with anybody else; it's to do with me"

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Boy George’s candor here lands because it refuses the usual pop-star narrative of reinvention as a costume change. Therapy isn’t framed as a trendy accessory or a redemption tour; it’s positioned as labor: slow, private, and unglamorous. The phrase “a lot of what I’ve been learning” is doing quiet work, implying that growth isn’t an epiphany but a syllabus. Two years matters, too - long enough to suggest commitment, short enough to feel unfinished. He’s not selling closure; he’s describing process.

The most pointed move is the pivot from identity to responsibility. He starts with sexuality, a topic that has shadowed his public life since the Culture Club era, when gender play was both spectacle and battleground. But he doesn’t treat sexuality as the explanation for relational chaos. Instead he uses it as an entry point into a more uncomfortable claim: “why things go wrong” isn’t a curse placed by the world, the press, or exes. It’s pattern recognition.

“It isn’t anything to do with anybody else” reads like a preemptive strike against celebrity blame games - the tempting myth that heartbreak is always caused by other people’s betrayal or society’s cruelty. “It’s to do with me” is both humility and power: humility because it admits complicity; power because it restores agency. For someone whose persona has long been interpreted by outsiders, that last line is a reclaiming of authorship over his own story.

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George, Boy. (2026, January 15). A lot of what I've been learning in the last two years is due to therapy - about my sexuality, why things go wrong, why relationships haven't worked. It isn't anything to do with anybody else; it's to do with me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-what-ive-been-learning-in-the-last-two-45467/

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George, Boy. "A lot of what I've been learning in the last two years is due to therapy - about my sexuality, why things go wrong, why relationships haven't worked. It isn't anything to do with anybody else; it's to do with me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-what-ive-been-learning-in-the-last-two-45467/.

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"A lot of what I've been learning in the last two years is due to therapy - about my sexuality, why things go wrong, why relationships haven't worked. It isn't anything to do with anybody else; it's to do with me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-what-ive-been-learning-in-the-last-two-45467/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Boy George (born June 14, 1961) is a Musician from England.

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