"A lot of women don't know how to vent and deal with emotions"
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The subtext is where it gets prickly. “A lot of women” frames emotional struggle as a gendered skill deficit, echoing a familiar cultural double bind: women are stereotyped as “too emotional,” yet also judged as not processing emotions “correctly.” Street’s phrasing unintentionally reinforces that contradiction, suggesting women both have feelings and mishandle them. What makes it work rhetorically is its friction: it sounds like tough-love realism, but it carries the residue of old coaching culture, where emotional management is treated as technique rather than a product of social permission, safety, and training.
Context matters. Women athletes have long been expected to perform competence and composure while navigating sexism, body scrutiny, and the expectation to be “likable” along with being excellent. If you’re punished for anger, dismissed for sadness, and labeled dramatic for demanding space, you learn to compress. Street is pointing at the compression. The more generous reading is that she’s calling out the lack of supported emotional literacy; the less generous one is that she’s repeating a stereotype. Either way, the quote exposes how “venting” isn’t just personality - it’s infrastructure: who gets taught it, who gets allowed it, and who pays a price for it.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Street, Picabo. (2026, January 15). A lot of women don't know how to vent and deal with emotions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-women-dont-know-how-to-vent-and-deal-159103/
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Street, Picabo. "A lot of women don't know how to vent and deal with emotions." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-women-dont-know-how-to-vent-and-deal-159103/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A lot of women don't know how to vent and deal with emotions." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-women-dont-know-how-to-vent-and-deal-159103/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


