"A lot of women say that they want to get to feeling about themselves the way I feel, because when I'm on a roll, I'm hot, I'm really good. I try to tell them, I don't have a fix"
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Then she punctures the fantasy with one blunt phrase: “I don’t have a fix.” That’s the quiet rebellion here. In an era that increasingly marketed self-esteem as a makeover away - and in an industry built on surfaces, auditions, and the brutal math of visibility - she refuses to pretend confidence is permanent or transferable. “When I’m on a roll” is the giveaway: her “hot” feeling is conditional, situational, momentum-based. It’s not a personality trait; it’s a weather system.
The subtext is about the cost of being perceived as an ideal. Burke is admitting that charisma and self-assurance can be episodic, even for the person everyone assumes has it solved. She’s also rejecting the role of guru. Women are trained to look for permission and instructions, but Burke’s honesty offers something rarer: solidarity without a sales pitch. Confidence isn’t a secret; it’s a fluctuation. That’s not defeatist - it’s freeing.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burke, Delta. (2026, January 17). A lot of women say that they want to get to feeling about themselves the way I feel, because when I'm on a roll, I'm hot, I'm really good. I try to tell them, I don't have a fix. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-women-say-that-they-want-to-get-to-48335/
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Burke, Delta. "A lot of women say that they want to get to feeling about themselves the way I feel, because when I'm on a roll, I'm hot, I'm really good. I try to tell them, I don't have a fix." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-women-say-that-they-want-to-get-to-48335/.
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"A lot of women say that they want to get to feeling about themselves the way I feel, because when I'm on a roll, I'm hot, I'm really good. I try to tell them, I don't have a fix." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lot-of-women-say-that-they-want-to-get-to-48335/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.










