"A lover tries to stand in well with the pet dog of the house"
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The intent is surgical. Moliere punctures the grand rhetoric of love by shrinking it to a social tactic. "Stand in well" belongs to the language of patronage and favor, the same vocabulary used for currying influence with a powerful relative, a nosy servant, or a wealthy benefactor. Swapping in a dog makes the maneuver look ridiculous without changing its logic. That's the joke: we laugh because it exposes how quickly "true feeling" becomes strategy when reputation, inheritance, or parental permission loom in the background.
The subtext is sharper than a cute observation about pets. A lover who flatters the dog is rehearsing compliance with the whole domestic order: the beloved's tastes, the family's rituals, the unspoken rules of entry. It's also a quiet indictment of a society where access to women is mediated by surveillance and propriety; even the animal becomes part of the apparatus.
Context matters: Moliere wrote for a courtly culture obsessed with appearances, where marriages were transactions and sincerity was routinely performed. The dog, pampered and privileged, is a miniature aristocrat. Win it over, and you've proven you're fluent in the household's real power structure.
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| Topic | Love |
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Moliere. (2026, January 15). A lover tries to stand in well with the pet dog of the house. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lover-tries-to-stand-in-well-with-the-pet-dog-6839/
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Moliere. "A lover tries to stand in well with the pet dog of the house." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lover-tries-to-stand-in-well-with-the-pet-dog-6839/.
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"A lover tries to stand in well with the pet dog of the house." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-lover-tries-to-stand-in-well-with-the-pet-dog-6839/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









