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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mae West

"A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him"

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Mae West is selling a kind of democratic eroticism, and doing it with the blunt charm of someone who knows the rules were written to be broken. She starts by itemizing the supposed male deal-breakers - short, dumpy, balding - a checklist of anxieties that still bankroll entire industries. Then she flips the power dynamic with one word: fire. Not money, not status, not even looks. Fire is charisma, appetite, nerve. It is also performance, which is West's home turf: desire as something you generate, not something you inherit.

The intent is both flirtatious and corrective. West reassures men that the body isn't destiny while quietly asserting that women's attraction is more complex than the era's polite scripts allowed. In the 1930s and 40s, when Hollywood policing (and the Production Code) tried to sanitize sexuality, West's persona thrived on winking defiance. She talks like a woman who is allowed to want, to choose, to be entertained - and who knows that confidence is its own kind of seduction.

The subtext has teeth. "Women will like him" isn't romantic fate; it's consumer language, almost market research. West treats attraction as a response to energy and intent, not a reward for meeting visual specifications. It's also a sly jab at male entitlement: if you're not getting attention, don't blame your hairline. Bring heat.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
West, Mae. (2026, January 17). A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-can-be-short-and-dumpy-and-getting-bald-but-26236/

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West, Mae. "A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-can-be-short-and-dumpy-and-getting-bald-but-26236/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-can-be-short-and-dumpy-and-getting-bald-but-26236/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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